Zephyr's Blog

Still Doubting Yourself?

Doubting Yourself Is A Waste Of Time

Above quote by yours truly, it applies to almost all my life coaching and success clients' stories.

"Don't forget, while you're busy doubting yourself, someone else is admiring your strength." A wonderful quote by Kristen Butler came to mind the other day...

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Is Using Just Someone's First Name Acceptable?

In Short, I Say Use People's First Names

I don’t feel like using someone’s first name is disrespectful, contrary to what some cultures would have you believe. Mr. Tan, Mrs. Jacobs, Mr. Rogers. We're told that it's more respectful to use a surname rather than address the person. I...

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16 Success Guidelines For 2024

Guidelines For Success In 2024


1. No fake friendships.

2. Only love.

3. Gentleness over irritation.

4. Goals over despair.

5. Step 1 is every day. Every day is step 1.

6. Saying ”no” IS love. Saying “yes” to everything is haphazard messy behaviour.

7. Eating healthier...

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3 Things You Achieve By Bad-Mouthing People

What are the 3 things you can achieve by bad-mouthing people? 

  1. You can waste your time.
  2. You can mess with your emotional balance.
  3. You can make your outlook on life worse.

Despite all our progress on Earth, all our spiritual awakening, all our visiting religious locations on Sundays, I...

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Only Your Soul Can Tell You If It Feels "Right".

Does What You're Doing Feel "Right"?

 

Over the last 8 years, I've been back and forth a lot on all my life pursuits. Introspecting, challenging my past mental constructs, and really challenging everyone around me too. (politely - much more politely now that I'm back to my balanced self, but...

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A Good Reason To Go To Work

I asked myself the other day, why at this new job of mine, I don't feel stressed like I used to in previous jobs, where I felt a feeling like I was "trapped". 

It came to me, that it's because of the reason I go to work here. 

The reason I go to work here is not because I feel that my...

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Health Tip 1 - How Much To Exercise To Lose Weight?


Health Tip 1 - How much to exercise to lose weight & how much exercise per day is good?

 

To be healthy and fit, I recommend moving the body (aka going to exercise in whatever way you choose), 3 to 6 times a week for at least 30 minutes each time.

If you're doing 3 times a week for...

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What Is Friendship?

What I Was Taught About Friendship


When I was young, and to be honest our entire lives, my parents have led by example and shown us how to maintain amazing relationships. "Be a good human being", "it is better to be kind than to be right" and "be nice to him/her/them" were regular phrases I heard...

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Why I Created The 21-Day Sleep Early Challenge


#21daysleepearlychallenge


Summary - This is why I created the 21-Day Sleep Early Challenge

 

1. I used to be 1st for 3 years straight in primary school out of 120 students, and I used to sleep very early.

2. This trend continued and I realise upon looking back that each time I was achieving...

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🤕 Small YOUTUBERS, REST to ensure Longevity. ❤️


Small YouTubers, where are you in your journey?

Are you a new or small YouTuber? Where are you in your journey? Just beginning? Maybe only 330 or so subscribers like me? Maybe an email list of say 100 people? No email list? Wowee. You're brand new. 

Look, I've been in several "long game"...

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Alcohol As A Tool?

If we consume alcohol in specific, controlled and tiny amounts once in a blue moon, as a tool for a specific purpose, such as to suppress crippling emotional pain or to reduce fear, we can consider that strategic move as intelligence. 

However if we consume alcohol on the regular and say...

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It Takes More Than A Tiara & Makeup To Be An Elf

This post is for those of you who are seeking to uplevel your life, are interested in spirituality, are on the edges of an awakening, have already begun your awakening journeys, or are wondering what in God's name a "spiritual awakening" is (that last one is not the exact topic of this one, but...

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