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Is That Person Actually... "Negative"? You May Not Have The Full Story.

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Many people think that just because you're pointing out unpleasant things daily, means you're "negative", a "complainer" or a "drama queen".

As someone who myself thought that about others in the past, may I share...

That is 100% INACCURATE about some people. 

Yes, there are some people who're still in deep pain in their lives, and who also happen to be very negative about everything...

HOWEVER... and in case you didn't notice... this is a BIG. "HOWEVER"...

 

Are They Actually In A Healing Phase?

 

This is not everyone. There are others, who are experiencing LEVELS to healing.

After you get into your "happy", and "positive" state, and start striving forward, comes the next stage.

The next stage is when you've had enough peace, space and forward-striving for a while to STOP. AND. THINK.

To go EVEN DEEPER into your next stage of healing. And guess what that entails?

Going to the ROOT. CAUSE. OF. YOUR. WOUNDING. Going back in time into incidents, even past lives.

And then, you start to express from a deeper, and often darker place.

And when people start doing that in that stage of their healing, it's all too easy, for people who don't know these topics in depth, to just assume, that they're just... "a whiner", "a negative person", "a toxic person", "a complainer", "a loser", "someone who will go nowhere in life".

How much more inaccurate can they be? ❀

 

Positivity Entails More Than Love & Light

 

The most positive people on the planet, are always working to make things better and better. ALWAYS. But guess what going towards "better" entails?

First identifying where the fuck you're at. Or what the fuck happened during those incidents. And when "the fuck" starts to get explained, mentioned, and dissected, amateurs and newbies in these pursuits start to lose their shit (and that’s ok) as observers and say things to the effect of "omg that's so dark", “this person is so negative”.

Yeah... to bring light to the darkest corners of the planet, we don't only have to bring our light daily, we also have to aim at where we're shining it, WITH FULL. HD. FOCUS.

If it's too much for you, bow out, but better yet, bow out of judging others, without knowing the depth of the work they're doing.

For example, if you're going to rescue child trafficking victims, you're going to first have to go into a child trafficking den. And maybe scout out your work for months. Years even, for proper and large operations.

So then no shit that these warriors will be talking about child trafficking for months.

Yeah?

Cool.

 

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Zephyr


 

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