Zephyr's Blog
It sure feels strange when your own family questions your every move. Despite the complex feelings, standing your ground is key to building your own identity and life.
Just today, the day of my daughter's birthday party, a family member commented, "I'm shocked that this is how you're running a...
The small things you're saying to yourself day in and day out which you think don't matter, actually shape your future.
For example, when you make a few simple household mistakes in the day and if you say to yourself under your breath..."Sigh... I'm an idiot," and even if you smile after that...
I remember when I was 14-15, trying to play Hockey better on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays ("because if you don't do this... how will you be an "all rounder" and get access to the best schools?" - what a waste of time that was!), and learning how to Debate in school in Raffles Institution....
A conscious decision to simplify and declutter your digital life can yield powerful returns.
Around my birthday last year in October 2024, I decided to exercise radical self-care. I haven't shot any new YouTube videos since that time with my face in them (my mistake I did, I did some bouldering...
The night, is mysterious and encompassing.
In the night, boundaries are blurred, both figuratively and visually.
Artists and creative folk crave the night.
Night is the best time for you to do something for yourself, daily. Or the early morning (before or after most of the activities in your...
Often, we have large tasks and goals ahead of us. I don't know any humans who "dream small". I know plenty who are stressed out though.
This happens because we try to bite off more than we can chew. As I go through a re-setting of my system to bring me back to who I was when I was a child before...
It's good to be in touch with people, sometimes even people you barely know... but how much is too much?
There was an extended family Whatsapp group I left, of the second cousins, on my Mom's Mom's side (my mother's mother's siblings' kids). A group of people from all over the globe.
The...
It can be easy to rush towards one goal if you're obsessed with it. Have you considered the cost though?
If you rush at something from morning to night, you’re likely going to end up doing well in that field quicker than most. This works across all industries.
If you want to do it with...
On 7th November 2024 (incidentally my brother's birth date), 2 weeks after my birthday on the 24th of October, the same day Frodo wakes up in the House of Elrond LOL (that's a Lord of the Rings reference, for those of you who aren't humans into fantasy and mystical stories), I just... collapsed....
This is going to sound a little controversial... but on a planet, or rather among a species, where massive change is needed to evolve, anything that takes you in a direction you're not used to going in is going to sound controversial.
If you're obsessed about something... even if it may be...
In today's day and age, our energies are quick to get messed with. If you're an empath or on a conscious path like I am, just multiply potential upheavals and incidents by 10.
It is absolutely essential to keep your energy grounded, balanced and neutral, as is unique to your own energy signature...
Relationships can be the most complicated things you will ever encounter, and also some of the most blissful.
Whether things are chugging along smoothly for you, or things are sour, I've come to realise that you can always keep improving things and making them better. Either you're into...
